Decoding Baby Cries – The ultimate guide to understanding your baby’s tears

“Why is my baby crying?” All babies cry. It’s their natural way of communicating, expressing their need for comfort and care. As a new parent, you will understand that there are different baby cries, which we’ll help you decode in this parent’s guide, as well as show you the most effective way to soothe them.

Crying is the only way your baby knows how to tell you that something’s wrong. It is not always easy to decode what this something might be, however, the most common reasons for a crying baby are:

• The baby is hungry
• The baby has a wet or dirty diaper
• The baby is in pain or discomfort (such as gas, teething or illness)
• The baby is trying to unstuck a burp 
• The baby’s temperature is either too hot or cold 
• The baby is tired
• The baby needs cuddles, attention or reassurance 
• The baby is feeling bored, lonely or overwhelmed 
• The baby is experiencing overstimulation
• Colic* 
  

Soothing Techniques:

Understanding your baby’s needs and responding promptly to their cries enhances their trust in you and helps reducing crying over time. Here are some soothing methods to consider:

• If you’re breastfeeding, let your baby suckle for comfort
• Never forget to burp your baby to avoid situations of stuck burps
• Provide your baby with a FRIGG Pacifier, Cuddle Cloth, or Blanket as a soothing tool
• Hold the baby upright or use a baby wrap to create a feeling of closeness. Try gentle movements, swaying, talking or singing
• Gently rock your baby back and forth in a pram
• Gently stroke your baby’s back rhythmically, either against your chest or lying face down on your lap
• Gently and firmly massage your baby, while talking soothingly
• Draw your baby a warm bath. Often accompanied with white noises, it can help the baby relax 
• Spend time with your little one. There is nothing a baby needs more than the love and care of their parents. 

NB: Never. Shake. Your. Baby! No matter how frustrated you feel, shaking can cause serious harm, even brain damage.

*Colic: If your baby is constantly crying and seems to be in discomfort, they may have colic. Colic is characterized by long periods of crying, the causes of which is still not completely understood, however it is believed to be related to the immature digestive system or sensitivity to certain foods. Colic peaks around 6 weeks of life and disappears around the 3rd or 4th month. Since there’s little you can do about it, keep comforting your baby and patiently wait for the crying to cease.